Wednesday, May 31, 2023

What is The Silva Mind Control Method?

The Silva Mind Control Method, developed by José Silva, is a self-help and personal development program that focuses on harnessing the power of the mind to improve various aspects of life. It is based on the belief that individuals can tap into their subconscious mind to bring about positive changes. 



The Silva Mind Control Method incorporates various techniques and practices to enhance mental functioning, intuition, and self-awareness. Some of the key elements of the method include:

  1. Relaxation and visualization: Participants are taught relaxation techniques to enter a deep state of relaxation and calm the mind. This state is then used to practice visualization exercises, where individuals mentally create and experience desired outcome. 

  2. Mental programming: The method emphasizes the use of positive affirmations and mental programming to reprogram the subconscious mind with empowering beliefs and attitudes. By repeatedly affirming positive statements, individuals aim to overcome limiting beliefs and manifest their desired goals.  

  3. Intuition development: The program also focuses on developing and trusting one's intuition. Participants are taught to access their intuitive abilities and use them for decision-making, problem-solving, and creative endeavors.  

  4. Healing and self-improvement: The Silva Mind Control Method includes techniques for self-healing and improving physical and mental well-being. Participants learn to direct their thoughts and intentions towards improving their health and well-being. 

  5. Goal setting and manifestation: The method emphasizes the importance of setting clear goals and using visualization and mental techniques to manifest those goals in one's life. 

It's important to note that the effectiveness of the Silva Mind Control Method can vary from person to person, and its claims have been subject to criticism and skepticism. While many individuals have reported positive experiences and outcomes, the scientific evidence supporting the specific claims of the method is limited.

If you are interested in exploring the Silva Mind Control Method, it is recommended to research and familiarize yourself with the techniques, principles, and experiences of others who have practiced it. As with any personal development approach, it's essential to approach it with an open mind, critical thinking, and personal discernment.

Friday, May 26, 2023

Penggunaan "di" yang didekatkan dan "di" yang dijarakkan

Walaupun sudah tahu tetapi masih keliru apabila hendak menggunakan perkataan ini ketika menulis

Mana satu yang betul semasa menulis frasa kata dengan menggunakan "di" yang didekatkan dan "di" yang dijarakkan.

KATA KERJA(PERBUATAN) 

Perkataan "di" ditulis dekat ketika disambung dengan KATA KERJA(PERBUATAN) 👍
Contoh : tulis - ditulis, makan -dimakan, kejar- dikejar.......
Apa sahaja kata kerja yang ingin ditulis,maka di perlu didekatkan.

KATA ARAH & KATA SENDI

Untuk "di" yang dijarakkan, seperti contoh di bawah.

Di sana, Di dalam, Di barat, Di hidung 👍

Jika diperhatikan : "di" yang dijarakkan ialah kata yang selain daripada KATA KERJA, seperti kata arah dan kata sendi.

Kesimpulannya : "di" perlu didekatkan sekiranya melibatkan KATA KERJA(Diracun, Digilis, Ditegur, Dibuang, Dilempar, Diperhatikan dll.)
Manakala "di" yang dijarakkan melibatkan frasa kata SELAIN daripada KATA KERJA.





Monday, May 15, 2023

Tatacara Penggunaan Panggilan Kehormat

Panggilan kehormat yang perlu digunakan untuk panggilan Dr. ialah "Yang Berbahagia". Panggilan kehormat "Yang Berbahagia" ini juga digunakan untuk kepada mereka yang bergelaran anugerah seperti Tan Sri, Datuk, Profesor, Doktor dan lain-lain lagi.

Panggilan kehormat "Yang Berusaha" digunakan untuk pegawai yang tidak bergelar, contohnya seperti Guru Besar, guru, Pengarah Program dan sebagainya. 


Monday, March 27, 2023

diatas atau di atas yang betul?

Walaupun sudah tahu tetapi masih keliru apabila hendak menggunakan perkataan ini ketika menulis


Mana satu yang betul? "diatas" atau "di atas", jawapannya "di atas" 👍


Penggunaan kata diatas atau di atas?


atas = bukan tempat

Di atas = Tempat 👍


Monday, March 12, 2018

Surat "terakhir" untuk anak dari seorang ibu yang didiagnos kanser


I had terrible headache and couldnt sleep the whole night. Maybe its the side effects of ovarian surpressed and partly the fear of chemo that i would have to go through in a few days time. #pinkribbon

What makes me sad is not the cancer or chemo. But everytime i look at Zaara, its a sad feeling gushing in. She's too young to see what i'm gonna go through.

So i decided to write her a letter....

Letter to Zaara

Dear my baby princess,

I love you and you are my life. Every little breath i have is dedicated to you. I was 36 when i diagnosed with Cancer. You were 5.

I just want you to know that, when i was younger, I did everything right. I had a dream, I studied really hard, I climbed the ladder, I achieved all my dreams, i eat right, i dont smoke, i dont take alchohol, i behave like a good girl, I carry good integrity. I was always being polite, I have high respect for people, I did everything I could to make my parents proud.

When i was diagnosed, I was questioning and really cant  find a single reason of why I got this. The cancer type that I got was the rare type and its tripple negative breast cancer. Its super rare that actually only 3% of women with breast cancer that will get tripple negative. Its bizzare that it happens to me.

I thought i was doing all the right thing. I always uphold a strong believe, do the right thing, fight for the right thing, focus on the right thing, spend thousand of ringgit on my skin, my body, my hair, vitamins, travel, etc.

But while trying to do everything right, I worked way too hard and i stressed up my body to the extend my body couldnt cope anymore. The stress in the body creates an acidic environment in my body and cancer live and grow well in an acidic body environment. I was not doing the right thing for my body.

The only thing that I did wrong was to Overworked my body. I stress them up, I forgotten that my inner body need time to rest and recoop. I camofludge my body with travel under the pretext of relaxing trip. But i work while holiday. I camofludge my body with expensive spa treatment on monthly basis, but i whatsaapp and texting people on work while having my body massage. I thought i was giving a retreat to my body, but in actual fact, i was just stressing them more.

So my dear zaara, I know that you will one day be a beautiful young lady, that probably have the same drive like me. Always want to be the front line, always want to win. You would probably have bigger dreams than mine.

But my advice to you is, go chase your dream. I know you are the type that wont settle for second best, but it's ok to be second sometimes. Sometimes you will see the sweet spot in being second.

Have faith, achieve all those dreams with full of integrity and joy and love. Respect other people and dont ever be rude or selfish. Love your father more. Pray...pray..pray all the time and keep thanking Allah for all the things he has given you.

But dont forget to play. Play hard, spend time on yourself, love yourself, take care of your health, eat greens a lot, do exercise everyday, marrry the right man that have similar values as you and your parents. Be a good wife, a good lovable mommy that shower your kids with sweet tender love.

Dont stress yourself. Dont overwork. Dont put work in your top priority list.  Treat yourself and go for your dream vacation. But dont packed your work when you travel for holiday. Keep them away. Dont ever do the same mistake that I did.

Remember that i love you and will always love you. You are my first daughter. I had you when I was 31 years old. You were my best birthday gift of that year. You were born just one day after my birthday. And you looked exactly like me when i was a child.

You will always be the "little elle" and i will always protect you, give you the best things in life. Countinue cuddle you, hug you, kiss you, hold you and never let you down.

I want to see you achieving all your dreams, I want to be at your graduation and feeling proud, I want to cry on your wedding, I want to babysit your child. I want to do so many things for you.

I love you my little elle. You are my heartbeat.

Love,
Mommy

https://www.facebook.com/hadzelynda.khairuddin

Tuesday, September 26, 2017

The 7 steps of the Sales Process

The 7 Steps of the Sales Process

1. Product Knowledge
This step is fairly straight forward, but it is also the great undoing of many a technical expert turned sales person. When one is extremely well versed in a particular product especially a technical one, it is easy to get caught up in a monologue of all the great features it provides.

The technical expert turned sales person is so eager to explain how the product works or why it’s unique that the benefits to the customer are left out of the discussion. Never assume that a prospect will easily link a feature to a benefit. That relationship must be stated clearly (something done in the presentation step 4, after the needs assessment step 5). The acquiring of product knowledge for a “technician” therefore, is less about the features of the product itself, and more about how the customer will benefit from those features. When discussing product, the technicians mantra should be; “So what?” Consider those two words to be what the prospect thinks every time a feature is mentioned, and re-learn your product from that perspective.

2. Prospecting
Prospecting, just as the word implies, is about searching for new customers. Like product knowledge, this step may seem fairly straight forward but upon closer examination it becomes more complex. The key to prospecting effectively is knowing where to dig and what to look for. It’s also important to distinguish between a lead, a prospect, and a qualified prospect. The most important element in this step is to create a profile of existing customers. This may have been done at your company, but have approach tactics (step3) been tailored to match each profile. For instance, you may have identified the following major market segments: State Governments, County Governments, Consulting Firms, Federal Agencies, Utilities, Universities, but have you fully profiled each of these in order to adjust marketing tactics appropriately? A direct mail, seminar invitation might work well to generate State Government leads, but will it be effective in developing Consulting Firm leads? For each market segment do you really know what the ideal customer looks like? These questions should be answered fully in the “Tactics” portion of a marketing plan.

In the broadest sense, prospecting is an ongoing process that everyone in the company (particularly the sales force) should be involved in. This simply means everyone should have their “prospecting radar” up when they are out and about in the world. Very often, a great lead turned customer was first discovered after being heard or seen in the news at a party, or event, etc.

3. The Approach
This is where the rubber meets the road in the sales process. For our present purposes lets consider the approach in the context of a sales call rather than lead generation (i.e. the difference between a mass mailing and a telephone call). This is the step where you begin to build a relationship and the intelligence gathering continues (it started with prospecting). A good approach is crucial to sales success because it will either identify you as a bothersome salesperson and cause a prospect’s guard to go up, or it will identify you as an obliging salesperson with something of value to offer. (There is probably a middle road too, but you get the idea.). Consider the example of tele-marketers selling a seminar:

Their product is a seminar, about which they presumably have sufficient knowledge. They prospect by scanning the house lists for appropriately titled leads, (generated by earlier prospecting efforts). They approach by saying “I’m Jay from XYZ and I’m calling to follow up on an invitation to a seminar that we mailed to you last week. Do you recall receiving it?” Then the dialog begins, often it’s perfunctory, other times however it can be extremely informative. The difference more often than not depends on how astute and articulate the caller is. What do you think is good about this approach? What do you think is bad?”

Quite often the type of call one makes is a follow up to some action i.e. seminar attendance, brochure mailed, etc. Technically these calls are part of follow up step 7, but let us address them in the context of a sales approach. What would be a good approach for each of the above follow up actions? Think about eliciting information and advancing the sale (closing, step 6). What would be a good approach for a cold call?

Additional Note on recording information: Regardless of the type of call or the results, it is important to take detailed call notes and schedule a subsequent action item, no matter what it is be it a week, a month, or a year down the road. (One can invent a system of abbreviations to make this easier i.e. LVM = left voice mail.) History notes are important for a variety of reasons, not the least of which is tracking where a prospect is in the sales process, including what follow up is necessary and when. Noting that “packet was mailed” or “attended seminar” or “inquired about model” is only half the information and not the most important. Why?

4. The Needs Assessment
This is arguably the most important step of the sales process because it allows you to determine how you can truly be of service. To be a highly effective salesperson, that is to sell to the prospect’s needs, you first have to understand what those needs are. This means you must think in terms of solving a prospects problem. The only way to do that is by asking lots of questions. Does a health practitioner prescribe remedies before a thorough exam? Asking good questions will not only help you determine what will best suit the prospects needs, but it builds confidence, trust, and will very often help the prospect consider issues they may never have thought of. This last point is powerful because it provides an opportunity to showcase features, which the prospects answers led you to. What questions would you ask to illustrate how your product is different/better than a competitor’s. Although intelligence gathering occurs throughout the sales process, it is at step four where it happens in earnest. What other information would be important to gather at this stage? (hint: who’s who, referrals).

5. The Presentation
Remember the discussion in step one, focus on benefits rather than features? If you consider your product/service in terms of how it benefits the customer, your presentation will be a focused and relevant dialogue rather than a self aggrandizing monologue. Nothing is worse than a sales presentation which proceeds from the sellers perspective. This is why the needs assessment is so important and why it will ideally flow in and out of this step. A good needs assessment allows you to tailor your presentation to your audience, and keep it interactive.

6. The Close
Eighty percent of sales are lost because a salesperson fails to close. Closing is about advancing the sales process to ultimately get an order. What you are trying to sell at each stage may be different. For example, a close early in the sales process may be to get an appointment to discuss your product/service, in that case you are selling an appointment not a widget. In a later stage you might need to meet with a committee, in that case what you are selling is a meeting. Seeing the sale process in this light takes a little pressure off of each encounter and makes things a bit more manageable. But don’t be lulled into complacency, you must ultimately ask for the order and no sales conversation should ever end without an agreement to some next step. Do not be satisfied with “we’ll get back to you”, where is the agreement in that? What could you say in response to such a remark in order to advance the sale?

In large part, closing is about discovering obstacles. Have you heard these before: “I’ll need to think about it.”, “It’s too expensive.”, “Let me run it buy some other people.” “Sounds good but I’ve already got one.” What could you say to overcome these objections?

There are lots of ways to close, indeed closing a sale has become a science unto itself. Books have been written on this topic alone. But there is one elemental truth – if you don’t ask you don’t get. Just for fun, following is a sampling of a few closing techniques from among the many:

— The Ask For It Close. “What do we need to do to get this model into your organization?”
— The If-Then Close. “If I could demonstrate how an XYZ model provides you with, (things you know are important based on the prospect needs assessment) then would you be willing to… demo, rent, buy, switch, etc.”
— The Process Of Elimination Close. “So you like the model, you have use for it, it’s not too expensive!”
— The Either Or Close. “Will that be cash or charge?”
— The Lost Puppy Close. “I guess I didn’t do my job very well.”

Additional note: The question “How much does it cost?” Is a great buying signal yet it is a question you want to avoid early in the sales process. What could you say to defer that question politely? When you do mention price, don’t be afraid that they are too high, say it with pride. Don’t forget to ask for the referral.

7. Follow-up
Good follow up will double your closing ratio. When a sales person makes contact with a prospect a relationship has been built, and follow up is how it is nurtured. Staying at the forefront of a prospect’s mind requires persistence and should not be confused with being bothersome. This is why it’s important to get agreement on some next step each time there is contact. Follow up therefore should never end. The pace may slow but it will never end. When a sale is made, then a new type of follow up begins.

Follow up conversations are best handled by the salesperson who started the relationship. Who else can better gauge a prospect’s “willingness to buy”, or pick up where “we last left off”. This means that detailed notes must be kept on each prospect with particular emphasis on their “state of mind”. It is unwise and ineffective to keep track of this information anywhere other than a centralized database.

Additional note: It’s important to hold some follow up ammunition in reserve. Overwhelming your prospects with every piece of information you possess on their first request hampers your ability to stay in touch. Having a stable of collateral materials gives you reason to follow up.

REAL PEOPLE, REAL RESULTS