Thursday, July 11, 2024

๐—ฆ๐—ถ๐˜… ๐— ๐—ฎ๐—น๐—ฒ ๐—ฃ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—น๐—ถ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐— ๐—ผ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ป ๐— ๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐—˜๐˜…๐—ฝ๐—น๐—ฎ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฑ

๐—ฆ๐—ถ๐˜… ๐— ๐—ฎ๐—น๐—ฒ ๐—ฃ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—น๐—ถ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐— ๐—ผ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ป ๐— ๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐—˜๐˜…๐—ฝ๐—น๐—ฎ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฑ (2 were added as for the info)

(What Each Type Brings to the Table) 

Open Thread - ๐Ÿงต 

๐Ÿ”ธ1. Alpha Males 

Alpha males are assertive and dominant. They often take charge in social settings, have high social status, and are charismatic leaders. They're the center of attention, like a CEO who can effortlessly command a room.

๐Ÿ”ธ2. Beta Males 

Beta males are less dominant and more agreeable and cooperative. They play a passive role in social hierarchies and crave forming relationships. A supportive colleague who willingly takes on a secondary role is a typical beta male.

๐Ÿ”ธ3. Delta Males 

Delta males often go unnoticed in social settings. They are neither dominant nor submissive and are fairly average in social interactions. Their adaptability makes them reliable, but they rarely lead.

๐Ÿ”ธ4. Gamma Males 

Gamma males are contrarians, often rejecting or challenging social norms. Their independent thinking sometimes makes them outsiders. A rebellious artist who struggles socially but is intelligent in other ways encapsulates this type.

๐Ÿ”ธ5. Omega Males 

Omega males are at the bottom of the social hierarchy and often lack social skills. They are typically introverted and may not lack self-confidence but are generally unpopular.

๐Ÿ”ธ6. Sigma Males 

Sigma males reject traditional social hierarchies and value their independence and self-reliance. They share charismatic traits with Alphas but operate outside conventional norms. A lone wolf who doesn't seek validation from others embodies this archetype.

๐Ÿ”ธ7. Epsilon Males

Epsilon males are Powerslide shoes designed to fit men's feet well. They have a PS insole with ventilation and a thinner toe area to give more space for the toes. They are also made of EVA foam and have a non-slip toe. 

๐Ÿ”ธ8. Zeta males

Zeta males are confident, independent, and defy gender norms. This male personality type is rare and unique. Zeta males reject common expectations and stereotypes of what it means to be a man and instead dance to the beat of their own drum. They aren't easily swayed by peer pressure.
Thanks for reading! ✋๐Ÿผ 

Now...

I've got news for you. Everything you consume in the form of information is affecting your ability to function as a man. Everything!

Addendum —

✋๐ŸผDon't take these personality types too seriously. Much like horoscopes or MBTI, they're an idea people came up with to create broad categories of people. They don't have a scientific basis. Don't idolize or devalue certain personalities. There are alphas who destroy their own lives due to their egos, rudeness, and excessive risk-taking. And don't overlook the well-adjusted omegas who succeed at work, enjoy loving and healthy romantic relationships, and lead fulfilling lives.

Some far-right online spaces push the idea of a rigid social hierarchy and use it to promote victimizing, misogynistic views. Don't fall down any toxic rabbit holes. Focus on the type of life that feels right for you.

Try to be your best self instead of turning into someone you're not. For example, instead of trying to transform into an alpha when it's not your style, play to your strengths while brushing up on your weaknesses. Try to become a better version of the man you already are.

๐ŸงพSet specific goals if you're working on self-improvement. "Be more sigma" is vague. "I'm going to fight negative self-talk" or "I'm going to improve my listening skills" give you direction.
Sometimes, people focus too much on whether a man is dominant. But traits like listening, humility, helpfulness, and emotional intelligence are important for your success in work, romance, and more


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Wednesday, July 10, 2024

Six (6) Darkest Manipulation Tactics Women Used to Control You.

Six (6) darkest manipulation Tactics women used to control you.

Understanding these behaviors can help you recognize and address them in your relationships.

 let's get started 

1). Emotional Blackmail: Emotional Blackmail is one of the most insidious forms of manipulation. It involves using guilt, fear and obligation to control someone for example a woman might say if you loved me you would do this for me.

I can't believe you would hurt me like this. these statements can make you feel responsible for her happiness or distress leading you to comply with her demands to avoid guilt or fear of losing her

2). Gaslighting: gaslighting is a psychological tactic where the manipulator makes you doubt your own perceptions and reality. A woman using this tactic might deny events that you clearly remember twist facts or accuse you of being overly sensitive or paranoid over time this can erode yourself confidence and make you more dependent on her version of reality giving her more control over you.

3). Playing the Victim: playing the victim 
 playing the victim is a manipulation tactic where someone portrays themselves as helpless or wrong to gain sympathy and control.

A woman might exaggerate or fabricate stories of how others have mistreated her to elicit your pity and support. This can make you feel compelled to protect and care for her often at the expense of your own needs and boundaries

4). Silence Treatment: The Silent treatment involves refusing to communicate or acknowledge your presence as a form of punishment, when a woman uses this tactic she creates a power imbalance by making you desperate for her attention and approval. This can lead you to apologize or concede to her demands even if you're not at fault just to end the uncomfortable silence and restore communication.

5). Triangulation: Triangulation is a tactic where a woman brings a third party into your relationship to create jealousy, competition or insecurity. she might flirt with someone else talk about another person's interest in her or compare you unfavorably to others. this can make you feel inadequate and drive you to go to great length to win her approval and keep her attention focused on you.

6). Withholding Affection: Withholding affection is when a woman deliberately denies you love attention or physical intimacy to punish you or get her way. By withdrawing affection She creates a sense of emotional deprivation that can make you more compliant to her wishes. This tactic exploits your natural Desire for closeness and approval making you more likely to submit to her demands to regain her affection.

these are the six darkest manipulation Tactics women used to control you. Know it and know Peace.

Tuesday, July 9, 2024

Study Tips

Spaced Repetition: Spaced repetition is a learning method that involves reviewing information at increasing intervals over time. It's designed to help you remember and retain information more effectively by revisiting it just before you're likely to forget it.

Parkinson's Law: Parkinson's Law states that work expands to fill the time available for its completion. In a study context, this principle suggests that setting deadlines and time constraints can help you stay focused and complete tasks efficiently.

Blurting: Blurting, or active recall, is a study technique where you try to remember key concepts or facts without looking at your notes or textbooks. This helps strengthen your memory and retrieval skills.

Energy Cycles: Energy cycles refer to understanding your own energy levels and working in alignment with your natural rhythms. Some people are more productive in the morning, while others excel in the evening. By scheduling tasks accordingly, you can optimize your productivity and focus.

Feynman Technique: Named after physicist Richard Feynman, this technique involves simplifying and explaining complex topics as if you were teaching them to someone else. This process helps you identify gaps in your understanding and reinforces your knowledge.

Monday, July 8, 2024

JANGAN LEBIH MASA DIPEJABAT?

JANGAN LEBIH MASA DIPEJABAT? 

1. Ada orang kagum kerana tidak pernah habiskan cuti tahunannya. Setiap tahun cuti tahunannya berbaki banyak sekali. 

2. Ada orang berbangga, dia balik paling lewat kerja. Kunci pejabat dia pegang punya. 

3. Ada orang berbangga tidak pernah ambil cuti sakit. Doktor nak beri cuti, katanya client sedang menunggu proposalnya. 

Kawan, 

4. Bekerja adalah proses yang tidak pernah habis, tidak akan selesai. 

5. Tumpuan pada kerja penting, tetapi tumpuan pada keluarga lebih utama. 

6. Jika kita sakit atau kecewa, bukan bos, client dan majikan akan bantu kita. Tetapi keluarga akan menjaga dan merawat kita. 

7. Hidup ini bukan soal kerja, majikan, bos, client dan KPI sahaja.  

Kita juga perlu bersosial, berkawan, minum dan jalan petang dengan keluarga dan kawan kawan. 

8. Jika majikan selalu suruh kita kerja lebih masa. Boleh jadi kita yang tak bijak urus masa, kurang efektif dan tidak produktif

9. Sayangi kerja kita, tetapi jangan cintai majikan kita kerana kita tak akan pernah tahu bila majikan tak perlukan kita lagi. 

Kerja itu ibadah
 
Kredit: Azizul Azli Ahmad

#KerjaTerbaik
#JanganJadiHambaKerja
#UtamakanKeluarga

Sunday, July 7, 2024

Three mistakes you should never make at your workplace.

You may want to save this video for later and pass this on to someone who needs it. 

One (1), never think that your colleagues are your friends. They are not. They are just doing their job. And when push comes to shove, they will save their skin and push you under the bus.

Two (2), you should never reveal your personal life to your colleagues. Don't tell them your plans, investments, or your next big move. Only a fool reveals secrets.

Three (3), when you disagree with company policy, never share it with any of your colleagues. Keep it to yourself. Anything you share to your colleagues can and will be used against you.

If you're not following this, you're probably never going to see us again. If you are, congratulations. You're growing every day.

life isn't easy af

Bill Gates was invited by a high school to give a lecture. He arrived by helicopter, took the paper from the pocket where he had written eleven items. He read everything in less than 5 minutes, was applauded for more than 10 minutes non-stop, thanked him and left in his helicopter. What was written is very interesting, read:


1. Life isn't easy — get used to it.

2. The world is not concerned about your self-esteem. The world expects you to do something useful for it BEFORE you feel good about yourself.

A former cleaning lady becomes a chef and fulfils her dream of having her own organic restaurant
True story: A simple (but powerful) gesture of kindness from a CEO

3. You will not earn $20,000 a month once you leave school. You won't be vice president of a company with a car and phone available until you've managed to buy your own car and phone.

4. If you find your teacher rude, wait until you have a boss. He will not feel sorry for you.

5. Selling old newspapers or working while on vacation is not beneath your social standing. Your grandparents have a different word for it: they call it opportunity.

6. If you fail, it's not your parents' fault. So do not whine about your mistakes, learn from them.

7. Before you were born, your parents weren't as critical as they are now. They only got that way from paying your bills, washing your clothes and hearing you say they're "ridiculous." So before saving the planet for the next generation wanting to fix the mistakes of your parent's generation, try cleaning your own room.

8. Your school may have blurred the distinction between winners and losers, but life isn't like that. In some schools, you don't repeat more than a year and you have as many chances as you need to get it right. This looks like absolutely NOTHING in real life. If you step on the ball, you're fired… STREET!!! Do it right the first time!

9. Life is not divided into semesters. You won't always have summers off, and it's unlikely that other employees will help you with your tasks at the end of each term.

10. Television is NOT real life. In real life, people have to leave the bar or the club and go to work.

11. Be nice to the CDFs (those students that others think are assholes). There is a high probability that you will work FOR one of them.”

Know these and know peace. I come in PEACE ๐Ÿ˜‡