Six (6) Darkest Manipulation Tactics Women Used to Control You.

Six (6) darkest manipulation Tactics women used to control you.

Understanding these behaviors can help you recognize and address them in your relationships.

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1). Emotional Blackmail: Emotional Blackmail is one of the most insidious forms of manipulation. It involves using guilt, fear and obligation to control someone for example a woman might say if you loved me you would do this for me.

I can't believe you would hurt me like this. these statements can make you feel responsible for her happiness or distress leading you to comply with her demands to avoid guilt or fear of losing her

2). Gaslighting: gaslighting is a psychological tactic where the manipulator makes you doubt your own perceptions and reality. A woman using this tactic might deny events that you clearly remember twist facts or accuse you of being overly sensitive or paranoid over time this can erode yourself confidence and make you more dependent on her version of reality giving her more control over you.

3). Playing the Victim: playing the victim 

 playing the victim is a manipulation tactic where someone portrays themselves as helpless or wrong to gain sympathy and control.

A woman might exaggerate or fabricate stories of how others have mistreated her to elicit your pity and support. This can make you feel compelled to protect and care for her often at the expense of your own needs and boundaries

4). Silence Treatment: The Silent treatment involves refusing to communicate or acknowledge your presence as a form of punishment, when a woman uses this tactic she creates a power imbalance by making you desperate for her attention and approval. This can lead you to apologize or concede to her demands even if you're not at fault just to end the uncomfortable silence and restore communication.

5). Triangulation: Triangulation is a tactic where a woman brings a third party into your relationship to create jealousy, competition or insecurity. she might flirt with someone else talk about another person's interest in her or compare you unfavorably to others. this can make you feel inadequate and drive you to go to great length to win her approval and keep her attention focused on you.

6). Withholding Affection: Withholding affection is when a woman deliberately denies you love attention or physical intimacy to punish you or get her way. By withdrawing affection She creates a sense of emotional deprivation that can make you more compliant to her wishes. This tactic exploits your natural Desire for closeness and approval making you more likely to submit to her demands to regain her affection.

these are the six darkest manipulation Tactics women used to control you. Know it and know Peace.

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JANGAN LEBIH MASA DIPEJABAT?

JANGAN LEBIH MASA DIPEJABAT? 

1. Ada orang kagum kerana tidak pernah habiskan cuti tahunannya. Setiap tahun cuti tahunannya berbaki banyak sekali. 

2. Ada orang berbangga, dia balik paling lewat kerja. Kunci pejabat dia pegang punya. 

3. Ada orang berbangga tidak pernah ambil cuti sakit. Doktor nak beri cuti, katanya client sedang menunggu proposalnya. 

Kawan, 

4. Bekerja adalah proses yang tidak pernah habis, tidak akan selesai. 

5. Tumpuan pada kerja penting, tetapi tumpuan pada keluarga lebih utama. 

6. Jika kita sakit atau kecewa, bukan bos, client dan majikan akan bantu kita. Tetapi keluarga akan menjaga dan merawat kita. 

7. Hidup ini bukan soal kerja, majikan, bos, client dan KPI sahaja.  

Kita juga perlu bersosial, berkawan, minum dan jalan petang dengan keluarga dan kawan kawan. 

8. Jika majikan selalu suruh kita kerja lebih masa. Boleh jadi kita yang tak bijak urus masa, kurang efektif dan tidak produktif

9. Sayangi kerja kita, tetapi jangan cintai majikan kita kerana kita tak akan pernah tahu bila majikan tak perlukan kita lagi. 

Kerja itu ibadah

 

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Three mistakes you should never make at your workplace.

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One (1), never think that your colleagues are your friends. They are not. They are just doing their job. And when push comes to shove, they will save their skin and push you under the bus.

Two (2), you should never reveal your personal life to your colleagues. Don't tell them your plans, investments, or your next big move. Only a fool reveals secrets.

Three (3), when you disagree with company policy, never share it with any of your colleagues. Keep it to yourself. Anything you share to your colleagues can and will be used against you.

If you're not following this, you're probably never going to see us again. If you are, congratulations. You're growing every day.

life isn't easy af

Bill Gates was invited by a high school to give a lecture. He arrived by helicopter, took the paper from the pocket where he had written eleven items. He read everything in less than 5 minutes, was applauded for more than 10 minutes non-stop, thanked him and left in his helicopter. What was written is very interesting, read:

1. Life isn't easy — get used to it.

2. The world is not concerned about your self-esteem. The world expects you to do something useful for it BEFORE you feel good about yourself.

A former cleaning lady becomes a chef and fulfils her dream of having her own organic restaurant

True story: A simple (but powerful) gesture of kindness from a CEO

3. You will not earn $20,000 a month once you leave school. You won't be vice president of a company with a car and phone available until you've managed to buy your own car and phone.

4. If you find your teacher rude, wait until you have a boss. He will not feel sorry for you.

5. Selling old newspapers or working while on vacation is not beneath your social standing. Your grandparents have a different word for it: they call it opportunity.

6. If you fail, it's not your parents' fault. So do not whine about your mistakes, learn from them.

7. Before you were born, your parents weren't as critical as they are now. They only got that way from paying your bills, washing your clothes and hearing you say they're "ridiculous." So before saving the planet for the next generation wanting to fix the mistakes of your parent's generation, try cleaning your own room.

8. Your school may have blurred the distinction between winners and losers, but life isn't like that. In some schools, you don't repeat more than a year and you have as many chances as you need to get it right. This looks like absolutely NOTHING in real life. If you step on the ball, you're fired… STREET!!! Do it right the first time!

9. Life is not divided into semesters. You won't always have summers off, and it's unlikely that other employees will help you with your tasks at the end of each term.

10. Television is NOT real life. In real life, people have to leave the bar or the club and go to work.

11. Be nice to the CDFs (those students that others think are assholes). There is a high probability that you will work FOR one of them.”

Know these and know peace. I come in PEACE 😇

THINGS THAT CAUSE REGRET AT OLD AGE

THINGS THAT CAUSE REGRET AT OLD AGE

When younger, we make various choice's without the future in mind. Sometimes those choices bite us in our mid-life. These are some of the things one might regret when they're older.

1. Marrying the wrong person

When you're young, check your motives for marrying. Don't marry to copy your peers, or for social standing or out of pressure. Marry for love and companionship, marry the right person, marry your best friend. For if you marry the wrong person or for the wrong reasons, you will have to put up with that person the rest of your life. Things might get worse between you two; then depression, physical abuse, affairs, pain, shame, court cases, bitterness will define your mid-life years all because you chose the wrong one. Things will get worse when children are involved. Make the right choice of a spouse when you are young.

2. The opportunities you did not seize

When you are younger many doors will open, you will get many chances. Many young people let these opportunities go because of fear, laziness, or pride; yet well younger and with more energy is the best time to start a venture and a name for yourself. Some think the opportunities are too big for them. Take advantage of them or one day when you're older you will want to go back and grab those missed chances.

3. The bridges you burned

When we are younger, we care little for relationships, what most think about is getting money and moving up the ladder of success at all cost. Many use and trample on people to progress, they take relationships for granted, messing up bonds, sleeping with people for personal gain. But these bad actions will catch up with you ahead. When you will realize how empty life is without love and friends. When you will have success but no one around you or no one to trust you.

4.The child you aborted

You are a young lady, you get pregnant and you are scared. You take the aborting option quickly thinking of that moment then. But when you are much older, you will look back and wish you kept that baby. When you will be rich and successful you will wish that child you gave up on would be around to enjoy the fruits of your hard work. Being a single mother doesn't mean you can't make it in life or you can't find a man in future.

5. The child you rejected

Young man, you impregnated a woman, she told you she's pregnant with your child. You rejected her and the baby and ran. But years later when you're 50 something, you will wish you were responsible, you will wish you manned up and became a father to that child. You will see that child excel and become an adult but will have no claim to that grown child who you rejected from the beginning. You will regret being a Dead Beat Dad by choice

6. The marriage you destroyed

So you get married to your good fiance; the first months in marriage were good but shortly after, with your money and charm, you started having affairs. You became unfaithful. Your spouse begged you to stop, your children started hurting, your marriage was collapsing. One day when you are older, it will hit you how foolish you were to destroy the good marriage you had began to build for mere temporary thrills in affairs that did you no good. You will realize the damage you caused to your children and spouse.

7. The God you disowned

When you are much older you become wiser, God becomes more real as you see life in a more meaningful way. But don't wait to get older to start enjoying a relationship with God. Know God when you are young, build your future with God. Don't be a young rebel who runs back to God when age catches up.

8. The body you messed up

You have only one body to live with all your life. The cigarettes, the alcohol you are abusing, the drugs you are taking, the unhealthy food you're consuming; all that will destroy you slowly. When you are 50 and lifestyle diseases catch up with you, you will wish you took care of your body when younger, that you exercised more; but now the damage is done.

9. The time you wasted

The time you are wasting when younger in worry, wrong relationships, laziness, being a couch potato, giving excuses and pursuing meaningless things; you will never get it back.

10. The dreams and talents you shelved

Are you talented when young; are there things you love to do and you are good at them? Nurture those talents, exploit them, don't give up even if you encounter set backs, don't give up on your dreams. If you give up, when you're older you will look at your peers who stuck to what they love and made it and think to yourself, "That could have been me". Pursue a career, study a course you love. Don't waste years of your life in a field that doesn't fulfill you.

11 The name you defamed

When you are older, a legacy is very important, the value of your name is crucial. You will ask yourself what is your reputation, what are you leaving behind? Your legacy is a sum total of your actions since youthful days. We write our biography by how we live life everyday. When you look back your path and you see the mud you threw at your own name, the shame you attracted and the little value you have added to the world; you will regret.

12. The wealth you threw away

Are you riding on good money during your productive years? Earning good money? Don't throw away that money in clubs, reckless living and wasteful shopping. Invest with that money, widen your revenue stream, make that money work for you and keep it safe to take care of you in your older years. Leave an inheritance for your loved ones so that you will never say "I wish I knew better"

13. The good love that got away

Is there that great person in your life loving you good? Don't push that person away, or else that person will walk out your life and you will never ever find someone that incredible and who connects with you all your life. It will torment you to grow older with thoughts of "What if I was still with that person?"

14 The parents you despised

When younger, it is easy to show contempt to your parents; what do your parent's know? They are old-fashioned, shady and small -minded. But your parents are still your parents whether you agree with them or not, whatever their style. Don't let your parent die or age separated from you, reconcile and make up. When you get older, you will realize why your parents wanted to be close to you. The older you get, the more you see the value.

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