Fasa Masa Berbeza

Saudara,

Usaha adalah pilihan. Rezeki adalah ketentuan. Kita selalu mengukur jaya itu pada wang kertas, pangkat dan kedudukan. Pada kita, itulah ukuran harus pada kejayaan. 7G, gagal semuanya, drop out universiti itu tidak penting. Yang penting anda kaya. Kata mereka. 

Pergi universiti pun balik menganggur. Perempuan belajar tinggi - tinggi pun akhirnya duduk dapur. Baik aku berniaga, boleh pakai vellfire. Baik aku instafamous, ada mustang. 

Saya tak pandai nak tunjukkan kepentingan ilmu pada golongan sebegini, kerana mereka cuma lihat wang, dan saya tidak memilikinya. Saya juga tak pandai nak berbahas tentang konsep rezeki dan usaha, kerana semua itu tidak dapat digambarkan. 

Dahulu, orang yang kurang cemerlang dalam pendidikan, merendah diri, segan pada orang berilmu. Sekarang, orang yang berilmu, jadi segan untuk mengaku lepasan universiti, kursus professional kerana tidak dapat kerja yang baik. 

Jadilah berilmu, jadilah orang berusaha. Nilaian ilmu itu janganlah diletak pada wang dan harta kerana itu bukan tempatnya. Nilai ilmu itu melebihi harta, dan ilmu itu ada tempatnya tersendiri. Orang berharta boleh membeli buku, tapi bukan ilmu. Letaklah harta di tangan, letaklah ilmu dihati. 

Situ duduk.

*Gambar cuplikan rakan fb.

Teach a child discipline, and it will serve him for a lifetime. | Tell Your Child This

Teach a child discipline, and it will serve him for a lifetime. It was seven in the morning. Eight-year-old Ethan was still curled up in bed when his mom's voice echoed from the kitchen.

Ethan, hurry up. Get out of bed. You're going to be late.

He came downstairs dragging his feet, his school shirt wrinkled, his backpack half-zipped, his eyes still heavy with sleep. His dad sat at the dining table, watching quietly. That day, everything went wrong.

He forgot his school supplies, argued with his teacher, and came home in tears. That night, his dad sat beside him on the edge of the bed and spoke calmly. Son, life doesn't wait for people who aren't prepared.

Starting tomorrow, you're going to set your own alarm, pack your backpack, and lay out your clothes the night before. Not because it's easy, but because it will make you strong. The first few days were hard.

There were tears, complaints, and a few tantrums. But slowly, something began to change. Ethan started waking up on his own, making his bed, planning his homework.

He didn't become perfect. He became responsible. And it all began the day his parents stopped doing everything for him and taught him how to do it for himself, because a disciplined child at home becomes a free adult in the world.

So the question is simple. Are you parenting with love or with comfort?